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standard SL 33 – Social tips for swanky girls with Jenn Burton

On this episode of Swank Life, Jake Swank does a 180 on the topic of dating techniques for men and is joined by dating coach for women, Jenn Burton for a discussion of how women can improve their dating and relationship experiences. Listen at: Jenn shares her own experiences and talks about some of the common mistakes that women make when they meet men, such as appearing needy or putting up walls. She encourages women to change their view of men, to believe that most men want to love and adore a woman.  An important point that Jenn makes is that chemistry between men and women is not instant and she coaches women to get to know men for a little while before actually going out on …

standard SL 27 – A Foreign Affair, Explaining “Mail-Order Brides” with John Adams

Historically, the term “mail-order bride” referred to women from well-developed ares who listed themselves in catalogs and were selected by men in overseas colonies or frontier lands for marriage. Today, mail-order brides work with international marriage agencies, where they list their profile online and men view these profiles and often post their own profiles, similar to online dating sites. Jake Swank interviews “A Foreign Affair” co-owner, John Adams about how this service-oriented business works. Listen at: John debunks the stereotype behind the term of “mail-order bride,” explaining that it doesn’t really even exist anymore. Clients correspond back and forth, and many take 10-14 day romance tours to meet many fascinating singles and enjoy exciting vacations. John and co-owner, Ron Redburn and Chief Technological Officer Ken Agee are …

standard SL26 – A Controversial Look at a 21st Century Survival Guide for Men with RK Hendrick

Join Jake Swank and RK Hendrick, Esq. as they discuss Hendrick’s controversial book, How to Avoid “Getting Screwed” When Getting Laid.  Visit: Hendrick’s many years of experience in family/divorce law has made him an expert on harmful legal practices and predatory social practices against men in today’s society.  In this episode, Hendrick shares with Jake how the scales of justice have shifted substantially against men, whether it concerns protecting their personal fortune or gaining equal footing in a custody battle, etc, and discusses how to recognize the warning signs of a problem relationship before it’s too late.
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In his legal career spanning nearly 20 years, RK Hendrick has been a prosecutor, a criminal defense attorney, a pro tem judge and a family law attorney (divorce, custody and …

standard SL25 – Love Systems and Magic Bullets with Nick Savoy

Dating is a science, but not rocket science.  Approaching beautiful women can be intimidating, whether in a bar, club, mall, or coffee shop, and many men don’t understand the psychology of women.  Join Jake Swank and Nick Savoy, CEO of Love Systems and author of Magic Bullets, as they discuss insights and techniques on approaching and becoming successful with women in the dating scene.   “To succeed with a woman, your best chances are to make an emotional connection, to make a physical connection, and to get the logistics right,” says Savoy.  To learn more, visit:
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Nick (Savoy) is President and CEO of Love Systems Corporation and is the author of Magic Bullets, our “bible” of dating science and social dynamics. He loves adventure and a …

standard SL24 – Taking Personal Response-Ability in Relationships

Join Jake Swank on this episode of Swank Life as he and Joergen Rasmussen, author of Provocative Hypnosis, and one-on-one coach and family therapist in the UK, discuss many common thinking patterns and behaviors in relationships that often lead to unhappiness and frustration.  Joergen talks about one key element in making positive changes, whether you’re looking for a relationship or currently in one:  personal response-ability.  Many people”s focus is “If I could change him/her, I would be happy.”  Joergen explains why this approach doesn”t work and offers practical advice for achieving ones” personal happiness and confidence.  To learn more, listen at:
Joergen Rasmussen entered the world of change-work over 11 years ago and asked himself many questions that didn’t seem to have been answered.  Not until he set …

standard SL23 – "Amplify the Attraction" with Bobby Rio

Jake Swank talks with Bobby Rio, Chief Editor of, as well as creator of Amplify the Attraction and Make Small Talk Sexy, both innovative relationship educational resources for guys. Visit: Why does he do it? In Bobby Rio”s own words:
“They say when you find something you love- Go with it! I love learning, perfecting, teaching, talking about, analyzing, and mastering the art of seducing beautiful women. I”ve packed seven years of life consuming passion into this website. Below you will find the best articles I”ve found written on seduction, every possible method of seduction, and my personal stories of seduction. This is “The Seduction Bible”
In Amplify the Attraction, Bobby discusses the five switches that consistently and reliably trigger attraction in the woman you”re talking to.
1. Playfulness
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standard SL22 – “Ethical Seduction: We’re Seducers, Not Monsters.”

Jake Swank talks with Frank Kermit BA. MA., Relationship Expert and Best Selling Author. Frank teaches men and women about their Emotional Needs, how to address each other’s Emotional Needs, towards ongoing loving relationships. His teachings and philosophies are about relationship building, maintenance, and living in both traditional and alternative lifestyles.  Visit:
Frank Kermit is an author of many books and audio programs. He also produces and hosts an internet radio show, runs online relationship advice forums, publishes Frank Talks: Frank Advice columns in magazines and conducts seminars. He is available for personalized coaching. His book Everything Out of Her Mouth is a Test has been #1 on in the Sex-&-Relationships Category since 2008. As the author of over a dozen books and over 40 lecture-CDs Frank …

standard SL21 – Swank Life Speed Seduction with Ross Jeffries

Jake Swank talks with Ross Jeffries, the founder, creator and Master Teacher of the worldwide seduction community. Featured as the mentor to Neil Strauss in the best selling book, “The Game”, RJ has taught, coached, and mentored thousands of men around the world, since 1991, guiding them to the success with women they truly desire and deserve. More at: His system, “Speed Seduction®” will show you how to succeed with the women you really want, predictably and reliably, without guess work or games, respecting yourself and the women you enjoy. Forget the copycats and learn from the original RJ and NLP.

standard Social Media Tools Are the New Rules of Seduction

The Swank Life ShowIn case you haven’t noticed, the process of meeting, greeting and seducing have changed a lot over the past decade. From Web 2.0 we got Facebook, Twitter, MySpace and a plethora of dating websites like eHarmony. And you no longer even need to be in front of your desktop computer at home to take advantage of them. Computing first shrank to the size of a laptop computer, a portable device that now seems absolutely mammoth-sized when compared to the iPad, iPhone or other traveling Internet permutations.