Just like on those cheesy commercials, you get dumped out of the blue by your girlfriend via text. No warning. No signs. Or you uncover such a blatant case of cheating that it seems like she wanted to get caught. Here’s the truth of the matter. Maybe she did want to get caught. Maybe the strong, independent guy she hooked up with has morphed into a whiny, sniveling half-girl/half-man that she can’t stand to be around any more.