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standard SL 57 – What Women Want… REALLY! with Dr Kathryn Foster

Dr. Kathryn Foster is a psychologist and author of What Women Want….Really!: The man’s concise, precision guide for figuring women out.

Key Takeaways:
[5:57] How evolution influences what we want in relationships
[11:57] How evolution impacted how we interpret language and how we can work on it and improve relationships
[17:04] Why women need to maintain women friends
[22:06] The parental relationship’s impact on our relationships
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standard SL 56 – 7 Step System to Find True Love with Deborah Downey

Deborah Downey, certified dating and life coach, author of “What Are You Worried About?”, joins the show to talk about her 7 step system for finding true love.
Key Takeaways:
[5:22] The two basic fears in relationships
[9:39] What daily personal affirmation she recommends
[15:04] Preparing the “outer package” for success
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standard SL 55 – Obscene Thoughts, A Pornographer’s Perspective on Sex, Love, and Dating with Dave Pounder

Time to talk about the Ashley Madison scandal, the evolutionary reasons behind men and women’s sexual behaviors, human’s closet genetic species, why man wasn’t designed to be monogamous and more with Dave Pounder, author of Obscene Thoughts, retired adult film producer, director, and performer.  He is president of Dave Pounder Productions and was executive vice president at Daydream Entertainment Group from 2003-2008.
Key Takeaways:
[6:48] How sexual conflict is created
[12:21] How the Ashley Madison situation shows us evolutionary tendencies
[21:11] There’s nothing wrong with partner variety
[27:15] Discusses his newest porn documentary
[33:44] How sexual tolerance is correlated to the secularness of society
[40:41] The “war on sex”
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Dana Michel

standard SL 54 – Find your Significant Other with Dana Michel from Marriage Material
Dana Michel is the founder of Marriage Material, a dating website specifically for people looking for their significant other. What’s different about Dana’s website is that it’s for people looking to settle down with a special someone and it is not catered to people who are looking for short-term flings. Dana explains what her website is about and how it works on today’s show.
Key Takeaways:
[2:10] People on dating websites tend to be looking for a one night stand. Marriage Material is different.
[3:30] What does Marriage Material do differently?
[4:15] What is an amateur matchmaker and how does it work?
[7:10] How do matchmakers make money?
[12:15] In this day and age where people Google your name, clean up your social media a little bit.
[14:40] Have a clear idea of what you’re …

dr. melvin konner

standard SL 53 – The Importance of Women in Our Society with Dr. Melvin Konner

Jason Hartman welcomes Dr. Melvin Konner who is the author of Women After All: Sex, Evolution, and the End of Male Supremacy. Melvin sits down with Jason and talks about the importance of women and how they”ve always played an important roll throughout history. In our society, we”re seeing more women take on higher leadership rolls, more men being stay-at-home parents, and much more on today”s Swank Life episode.
Key Takeaways:
3:40 – Why does genetic variety make us more immune to germs?
7:00 – Men are dependent on women for their own connection to the future and that”s why men fight over women.
10:50 – Women had a voice in hunter and gather societies.
18:10 – Men are usually the instigators and leaders to illegal crimes more so than women.
23:05 – It”s …

dr. susan campbell

standard SL 52 – Five-Minute Relationship Repair Interview with Dr. Susan Campbell

Dr. Susan Campbell talks about her latest book that she co-authored with John Grey titled Five-Minute Relationship Repair on today’s Swank Life. Susan has written nine books on the subject of relationship conflict and resolution. She has also counseled thousands of couples to help better their lives and their communication with their significant other. On the show, Susan talks to Jason about some of the things you can do to live a happier life, communicate better with your partner, and repair some of the negative emotions you experienced as a child.
Key Takeaways:
1:15 – If relationship conflicts are not repaired quickly, your nervous system stays agitated.
4:00 – What needs to happen quickly when you’ve been triggered is to have a pause in the conversation.
7:05 – Susan believes childhood conditioning …


standard SL 51 – 3 Ways to Get Physical With Women Faster with Brendan Rose

In this quick Swank Life episode by guest host Brendan Rose, he explains the three major ways you can get physical with a women faster. Have you been on five, six, seven dates without getting physical? Then this podcast episode is for you. Brendan breaks down how you can break the barrier and grab the attention of a woman.
Key Takeaways:
2:30 – Adding more layers to yourself will often add more anxiety. So, hack away the inessential instead.
3:30 – Life is simple, we just make it complicated.
5:10 – Number one, develop a plan of where to go and when. Brendan explains what this means.
7:05 – Number two, create liminal space. What is liminal space?
10:40 – Number three, affection first. Brendan explains how to do this in a swanky way.
13:40 …


standard SL 50 – The Secrets To Winning People Over with Dr. Jack Schafer

On this episode of The Swank Life, Jake talks to Dr. Jack Schafer about his book The Like Switch, his time as a behavioral analyst, and how to win people over.
Key Takeaways:
[00:01:45] background
[00:02:19] profiler vs behavioral analyst
[00:04:13] The Golden Rule of Friendship
[00:09:57] friendship formula
[00:13:00] Eyebrow flash
[00:18:46] Digital World
[00:22:28] keep it fresh
[00:22:17] Sustaining, keep it fresh
“If you want people to like you, you make them feel good about themselves”
“Build intensity into the relationship, that’s the kind of thing that cements everything together”
“When you’re on the digital world, we’re taking people out of the visual world.”
Mentioned in This Episode:
Are you living the Swank Life? It’s cool. It’s classy. It’s cutting edge. It’s everything you want our of life. If you want more dates, more fun and a better lifestyle, it’s time to raise the bar and start living the …


standard SL 49 – Connecting with Women, the Simple Way

Brendan Rose talks about his three month romp in Costa Rica, that turned into a three year journey filled with travel and life lessons. He also teaches the simplicity of connecting with women.
Key Takeaways:
00:30 Brendan Rose talks about the shift that changed everything.
06:51 Brendan Rose explains how to get a phone number in a cool way.
13:05 How do you actually approach a woman?
16:29 My ten tenants.
24:49 An incredibly effective insight on making connections with Facebook.
“The feminine grows with praise, the masculine grows with challenge”
“The more motivated by love you are, the more fearless and free your actions will be,” – The Dali Lama
“Just say what you appreciate about her, that’s it.”
“The guy who embraces difficulty, is the guy who will do better with women, hands down, every single …