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standard SL 40 – Marni Kinrys Wing Girls and Dating Techniques for Men

In today’s episode of Swank Life, Jake Swank and guest Marni Kinrys provide the ultimate guide for men wanting more success in finding women. Marni is the founder of The Wing Girl Method, a process designed to give tips and real-life insights into what women think and how this can be used to reinvent the modern man’s dating techniques.
04.55 – Our reactions to relationships are always changing – nowadays online dating is normal and often, successful, whereas it used to be a sign of desperation.
05.39 – Men: If you want something, you have to be very clear and direct with your intentions. 
09.00 – Ask for what you really want. If you ask if she wants coffee, she’ll think you only mean coffee. 
12.40 – It’s sexy for a man …


standard SL 39 – Isabel Behncke – Primatologist at Oxford

Jake Swank talks to Isabel Behncke a primatologist at the Oxford University. She’s been on TED talks and today on the show she shares some very important scientific tips as to what a women loves in a man and how you can improve your lifestyle to attract women.
Key Takeaways: 
4:10 – Despite what most people think, good guys do not finish last. Women want the good guy in a long term relationship.
7:45 – Females are a limited resources to males, because they have a reproductive cycle of about 9 months.
10:00 – In the short term, women are most likely to trust a man if they show vulnerable traits.
12:00 – What attracts women? Use your brain, humor, generosity, and have a good social network.
“Find something that you like and then …

standard SL 38 – Warrior Lovers with Dr. Catherine Salmon

Dr. Catherine Salmon is Associate professor of psychology at the University of Redlands and author of, “Warrior Lovers: Erotic fiction, evolution, and female sexuality.” She joins the show to discuss how romance novels represent and portray female sexual preferences.
Dr. Salmon then explains the difference between how men and women express their sexuality and how guys can draw the line between treating a girl like a princess and being a doormat. 
Dr. Salmon then finishes with her tips on how guys can develop social currency and status. 
Catherine Salmon is an associate professor of psychology at the University of Redlands. Her research interests cover everything from birth order and family dynamics to eating disorders, reproductive suppression, and sexuality. She holds a PhD in psychology and a BSc in biology from McMaster …

standard SL 36 – How to Find the Right One with Charles Johnson

Charles A. Johnson is a Huffington Post Dating Contributor, Certified Life Coach, and the Author of “How to Find the Right One and Make it Last!” He joins the show to discuss how guys can “tech-up” their dating skills.
Johnson believes the mobile phone is the new weapon to finding “The One.” He shares some do’s and don’ts every guy should know about online dating. 
Johnson also discusses bad habits guys need to rid themselves of. 
Find out more about Charles A. Johnson at www.askcharlesjohnson.com.
After more than 20 years in the military and 16 in a corporate environment, Charles Johnson found another calling in life.  In both the Air Force as well the many companies he founded or worked in, Charles managed and mentored diverse teams across Europe, Asia and North …

standard SL 35 – Love Letters with Samara O’Shea

Samara O’Shea is a professional blogger for the Huffington Post, former blogger at Powell’s Books and TalkingMakeup.com, and founder of Letter Lover – a professional letter writing firm. She’s also the author of, “Loves Me…Not: How to Survive (and Thrive!) in the Face of Unrequited Love.”

O’Shea starts the show by discussing some qualities that make guys “a dick.” She explains how a guy can recognize and move on from unrequited love and how they can start loving themselves when someone they love doesn’t love them back.

O’Shea then discusses the difference between love and addiction and the positives to being single.

O’Shea also wrote the book, “For the Love of Letters: A 21st-Century Guide to the Art of Letter Writing.” She tells us more about letter writing and how she …

standard SL 34 – Electrify Your Sex Life with "Sexual Euphoria"

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Are you waiting to dip your toes in the water of the online dating scene? Or maybe you’re a wily veteran cyber romancer. Regardless, you won’t want to miss Episode #34 of The Swank Life Show as host Jason Hartman interviews George Moufarrej, author of “Sexual Euphoria: A Complete Guide for Men and Women.”
Moufarrej holds a Bachelor’s degree from USC and a Master’s from California State University of Los Angeles. He is an accomplished researcher and holds a special interest in communication (or lack thereof) between men and women. During this interview, Jason and George devote considerable time to the topic of exactly how online dating is different, in an emotional sense, from the face-to-face version, and the risks involved peculiar to the former.
Exactly what is necessary …

standard SL 33 – Social tips for swanky girls with Jenn Burton

On this episode of Swank Life, Jake Swank does a 180 on the topic of dating techniques for men and is joined by dating coach for women, Jenn Burton for a discussion of how women can improve their dating and relationship experiences. Listen at:  www.SwankLife.com. Jenn shares her own experiences and talks about some of the common mistakes that women make when they meet men, such as appearing needy or putting up walls. She encourages women to change their view of men, to believe that most men want to love and adore a woman.  An important point that Jenn makes is that chemistry between men and women is not instant and she coaches women to get to know men for a little while before actually going out on …

standard SL 32 – Outstanding Online Dating Advice and Tips from Adam Gilad

Communication is a tough subject, with distinct neurological differences in the wiring of men and women’s brains. Men communicate data, while women communicate to connect. Jake Swank is joined by dating and relationship expert, Adam Gilad, for an explanation of effective communication in online dating. For details, listen at:  www.SwankLife.com. Some of the tips Adam gives for effective profiles are:  Men need to learn the language of sensuality in order to create a romantic atmosphere for a woman; humor, sweetness, boldness; create trust with pictures of your social life, such as photos of family and friends, charity or sports events, that give an idea of the kind of life you both have together; and set a high bar of morality. Adam also talks about communicating that you are …

standard SL 31 – Getting Her Attention Through Texting with Bobby Rio

As Bobby Rio expresses, times have changed in the dating scene – the reality is that getting a girl’s phone number and making a simple phone call to initiate a date just doesn’t apply. Girls are always on their phone texting and your text messages need to stand out and get her attention. Jake Swank and returning guest, Bobby Rio, talk about the new process of texting your way to a date. Listen at: www.SwankLife.com. Bobby shares the three important steps to make your texts stand out: Getting her attention by sparking an emotion, making a connection with her with something that makes her feel special, and the push – going for the date. Bobby gives real life examples of texts that work. For instance, …